You defend them when others insult and criticize, knowing that those people who're talking are probably right in the end you block it all out and say no their wrong and you defend the people who you think who would have your back.
How many of us have been in a relationship, or it being work you do your job you prove yourself you help them without asking for anything in return than all of the sudden a sheep in wolves clothing comes or maybe they're all sheep in wolves clothing only working for their own benefit in the end everything you've done for them never mattered it was the benefit of their need from you is all that they wanted now that they have gotten their benefits of you they slowly start to replace you, when you suspect something you tend to want to block the idea out of your mind you question them they tell you don't worry don't over think but you know what we have a conscious for a reason normally when there's something wrong its because they're normally is so never ignore the bad vibes...
How do we allow betrayal to happen? the answer is we don't it's normally unexpected the kindest ones are the ones who're the ones who are the ones who get hurt the most and those people who are the kindest are the ones who've been betrayed to many times and people wonder why you think or act the way you do, so many people who take advantage of our kindness and or loyalty sometimes ends up biting us in the ass we end up lacking trust and we end up not trusting anyone even the ones who actually are loyal good people to us we tend to take it out on them and than start to push them away and shutting everyone out all because of a few bad people...
How do we avoid it? be cautious in every situation, study each person you meet if they talk about others in a bad way than you can be guaranteed they'll talk about you also behind your back. If they promise unrealistically or seem to be over the top or it seems to good to be true it normally is... If you mention about the problem a few times and nothing changes than know that they're not good company or the people around you are not good.
In the end be careful in who you talk to not everyone you talk to can you always trust and isn't always your friend sometimes people will be nice to you just to gain something from you, sometimes it pays to be an asshole so you don't get hurt again and again.
